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"How’s the business doing?”
“Good. Killing it, actually.”
“Really? What do you mean by that?”
“Uh, well, we usually pay our invoices on time these days.”
When did “talking about a problem” really work? Maybe 1 out of 10 times?
Listen up, men. If you feel like it definitely didn't work for you why don't you stop going to therapy, and focus on solving your problems instead.
Wait...what?
Three important points:
“I should have saved my father.”
We've just met Mr. Remorse. Mr. Remorse blames John every day of John's life for not saving John's father. The doctors told John's family that it was his 6th heart-attack, and there was nothing anyone -- let alone 11-year John -- could do.
Still, the black-robed Mr. Remorse, himself a part of John, persists in flogging John for a sin he didn't commit...
“I have never been single in my adult life! Not even for a one day!” - says Juliet, my new client. She's just listed ‘summoning the willpower needed to dump my boyfriend of three years’ as one of the goals of our sessions.
“I am on the bottom of his priorities. His career. His family. Drinking with his buddies at the ballgame. Even his dog. They're all more important than me."
"Don't lie to me! I know you pawned the diamond earrings your mother gave you. You wouldn't have had to do if you didn't spend money like water. Both our salaries are small, and now, you want to borrow money from your father too? STOP SPENDING MONEY WE DON'T HAVE, GODDAMNIT!"
Welcome to a familiar scene from my childhood home. Picture me as a quiet twelve-year-old in pajamas with my ear firmly pressed to the kitchen door as my father berates my mother.
‘What is the most resilient parasite? Bacteria? A virus?" Asks Cobb in the 2010 hit movie, Inception.
Cobb answers his own question, "An idea. Resilient. Highly contagious. Once an idea has taken hold of the brain it's almost impossible to eradicate."
Welcome to the powerful world of ideas. While we harbor ideas that support us, many of us are infected with ideas that sabotage us too.
- So what is this co-creative coaching all about? What do you really do in a session?
- Our aim with co-creative coaching is threefold: to achieve mindfulness, to create the capacity for deep personal connections and to manifest the client's purpose in life.
- Let’s look at these one by one. First: what do you mean by mindfulness?
“I am just like my mother! At home, I put suffocating boundaries around my daughter and I drive my husband freakin' crazy with my nagging. At work, I've been promoted twice in last year yet I feel like a fraud and at night, I have terrifying dreams where I strangle somebody to death.”
Miriam is a top lawyer in a huge German company. She's on a see-saw; her mood, her productivity, the quality of her care for her children all fluctuate wildly. Sometimes she is over the moon, sometimes she has thoughts of death and bloody murder. Up-down-up-down...
My bank account is healthy. I have nothing urgent to do for the next six months. And I've got a brand-new Harley-Davidson RoadGlide Custom in my garage begging me to take it out for a spin across the Golden Gate Bridge. Yet I can't.
"Get back to work, you lazy piece of crap."
Meet the voice that has been in my head for as long as I can remember...
“My boss is killing me! Yesterday, just like everyday, he barged into my office while I was on a conference call, barking orders at me, demanding better sales numbers. This is after a record quarter!"
This is how John answered my question of "What's bothering you?"
"I cannot stand up to him. I have tried to give him a piece of my mind at least 15 times, but I simply cannot start. I'm a coward.”
“But I love new challenges! I need to know that I can wrap him around my finger!" says Veronica, a successful entrepreneur in the entertainment industry as she reports on her new love interest. She's titillated, this could be The One for her!
“Yeah, maybe, he is a little depressed. But I know I can help him change and he will be so grateful!" - she claims. After I press her, she admits she doesn’t really know much about him, yet she has already projected a whole world of wishes and desires -- her wishes and her desires -- on him as if he were a movie screen...
"Marriage is so boooring! Don't you remember the thrill of the hunt? New night, new girl. Each conquest different. Remember the different smells… the different personalities… the feeling of completing the challenge! You always loved to wake up in a new house, in the morning after, you felt you were on the top of the world! We could never get enough of that." sang Augustus to my client, Peter.
After many years and even more relationships...
Juliette wakes up in a steamy jungle. With dead soldiers laying at her feet.
Juliette is now a he, and as the first lieutenant of a platoon that had been viciously ambushed, he realizes how ineffectual he had been in protecting his comrades. He sinks to his knees as he is hit with palpable spasms of guilt, shame and fear.
Juliette is revisiting a past life. A past life that is the source of an inescapable feeling of loss and failure to protect loved ones.
Do I believe in past lives?
Isabelle watched as her mother raised her hand and the first blow came down. She was beating up her small child again who was crying hard. But this time Isabelle came to the rescue. She stopped the beating and took the little child to safety.
Isabelle, who is an accomplished artist in her craft earning international recognition was on my couch fighting her demons from the past. Her mother’s violence scarred her for life, her childhood fear still haunted her daily. She had constant anxiety, she blew up at people all the time. She was alienating her business partners and her...
Suzanne felt the fear again as the humongous lumps of cold rocks were about the crush her. She was back in her nightmare where meteors were charging at her and she was scared to her bones.
Only this time she was in a lucid dream; in a safe trance state in my office on the couch. She saw it exactly as in her nightmares: Earth is in a distance, she is a lot larger than in real life, but these rocks are way bigger than her. The meteors are speeding towards
I'll never forget the time when I stared into the eyes of the dragon.
I was in my childhood home. The house was cold, empty and lonely. I wandered around inside, bumped into a few half-forgotten memories, when in the living room I observed a creepy black mist gathering.
That day, instead of facilitating an inner journey for a client, I was on a journey.
From experience, I know that a black mist is...
“I see so much potential in our marriage. I wish my wife would see it too and join me making our marriage better”, my client Alex told me. Through our work together, Alex has seen fast changes in his personality; he’s less volatile and less stressed after only a few sessions.
Today, he is concerned that his wife won’t follow his lead, and his rapid personal growth will lead to them growing apart, not growing closer.
As a successful writer and father of three, he loves his wife yet...
